Most guardians wonder how their dogs feel about them. Are they happy? Do they love me? Dogs may not be able to tell you how they feel, but there are many ways dogs show you.
Tail wagging
This one is a classic! Tail wagging can be a sign of a dog’s excitement and affection for their human, but different wags mean different things. If a dog wags their tail to the right, they may be experiencing positive emotions and if it is to the left, they may be feeling fear and anxiety. You can confirm your dog’s emotions by looking at their whole body, and the context of the tail wagging. But if you are getting the helicopter tail, consider yourself lucky – your dog is really excited to see you!
Licking you
A lick from a dog isn’t always welcome, but it should be! From a gentle lick on your hand to an excited attempt to wash your face, dogs lick humans they love. It can be a sign of affection and trust and is a bonding opportunity. Why do dogs do it? There are many reasons, such as self-soothing, salty taste, and simply to seek attention. It also feels good! Licking releases endorphins in dogs which creates a positive association between the dog and We need to be a little careful about where we let our dogs lick us, though. Try to keep them from licking your eyes, ears and mouth.
Seeking physical contact
If your dog likes to lean up against you, cuddle up beside you or take a nap in your lap, it is a big sign of affection and trust. They have plenty of places in the home to relax and grab some ZZZs so if they choose to be close to you, they may be letting you know they like you and feel safe in your presence.
Following you everywhere
Is your dog right behind or beside you every time you move in your home? Is there no such thing as personal space when it comes to your dog? Dogs are social animals and many dogs enjoy being in the close company of their people. It is a sign they trust us, and we make them happy. However, don’t worry too much if your dog is also happy to chill out alone, as each dog has a unique personality.
Guardians should be aware that following you everywhere, often referred to as “Velcro” behaviour, it can also be a sign of separation anxiety. If your dog is exhibiting other signs including destructive behaviour and excessive barking when you aren’t around, consider contacting your veterinarian for help assessing your dog’s needs and an AnimalKind dog trainer for ways you can help your dog feel more comfortable on their own.
Eye contact
If your dog gazes into your eyes with a relaxed body posture, they are letting you know they love you. Sometimes that loving stare might mean they would “love” you to give them another treat. Either way, making eye contact with your dog is a wonderful opportunity to create a stronger bond. But be aware of their body language: if your dog is looking into your eyes and they move away as you approach them, they might want you to give them some space. Never try to make eye contact with a dog you don’t know. It can be perceived as aggressive and confrontational.
Every dog is unique and may show their love and affection differently, so don’t worry if your dog isn’t a big licker or doesn’t follow you around the house. They undoubtedly show you love and affection in their own way.